ʻohana
1. nvs. Family, relative, kin group; related. ʻOhana holoʻokoʻa, ʻohana nui, extended family, clan.
We have experienced a lot in the past couple weeks. I would like to quote it as being an "Offly big adventure"-Peter Pan. He wasn't referring to what I am talking about, but still.
In the past two weeks many things have happened. My Ohana and I have moved from San Diego to Honolulu, we visited family, we experienced a loss(my families dog, we had her for years, since I was in 5th grade.), a gain(my sister in law is pregnant), and sadness, as we leave our families behind and start our new Navy adventure in Hawaii.
Jakey has also made big strides in these two weeks. He crawls(rather fast), he pulls himself into a standing position(while holding something), and he can sit up by himself. Recently his crawling has reached new heights as he can now over come obstacles...lucky us.
He is getting so big so fast. We weighed him the other day, 20 pounds. Where did my little 6 pound guy go??
In his short little life he has experienced a handful (or 2) of plane rides, 2 homes, 3 if you count our short stay in Rockford, which I would because we are using that as our address for now, 3 different time zones, and all his little milestones.
So, we went home for Labor day weekend. Jake's brother was coming into town and we wanted to surprise everyone by showing up too. For Jake's family it was the first time meeting Jakey, and for my sisters as well.
It was nice. I was starting to get home sick. I tried not to let it get the best of me, but it was really nice to be there.
Then we flew back to San Diego to get ready for our Great Big Adventure to Hawaii. We had to clean the house out(aka get rid of tons of crap that had piled up), have the movers come to pack it all away, stay in a hotel till our flight to Rockford, drop our car off to be shipped across the ocean(still isn't here), and keep a baby on a schedule(somewhat).
All the stuff in San Diego wasn't so bad. The hotel was okay, the one we are currently in is ten times better, not sure if it has anything to do with the location...
Rockford was the hardest, you have to try and divide your time when you are married, between both of your families, to give them equal chances to see you and your children, should you have any.
That to me is the hardest thing to do, how do you divide your time, and keep everyone happy. You end up feeling slight guilt when you have to leave and know you are taking time away from everyone. Whether we did a good job or not I am not sure, I can only hope we did.
That being said it is EXCEPTIONALLY hard to keep a baby on a schedule when so many people have differing schedules and you are trying to maintain that equality.
Leaving was a sad day, you know how long you are going to be gone, and how long it will be till people can MAYBE come visit, but you can't help but be completely excited for all of the new things that are going to happen.
Last time we moved(to San Diego) I was 30 weeks pregnant, driving in a moving truck across the country, this time I have an almost 6 month old, cutting teeth, who is very active...hmm...which one was a more enjoyable trip.
I'll keep you guessing for just a moment longer.
Last trip, 3 days, driving through mountains, nothing-ness, and snow.
This trip, 2 days, flying with my husband and son.
(You may be leaning one way at this point)
Last trip, swollen feet, long hours, MANY bathroom breaks.
This trip, crying baby, long hours, many bathroom accidents.
(Still leaning in one direction?)
Last trip, just the two of us.
This trip, the three of us.
The results are in, I would rather travel pregnant, driving a 16' truck across country, then travel on a plane over 2 days with a teething 6 month old who screams for 3 out of the 5 hour flight.
But hey, that's just me.
SO, we arrived here yesterday. It is amazing, one of the Petty Officers above Jake(who was actually one off his instructors in C School) picked us up from the airport. He got us leis. We finally checked into our hotel and just hung out for awhile.
Jake's doing his paper work today, and I'm going to try and pick up a rental car and go to the housing office.
Jakey is awake from his nap, so I better get going.
Next up, how this little boy is going to adjust to a 5 hour difference in time....results should be interesting.